When to quit and when to persevere?

For me persevering in my sport was less about self-belief and more a decision and commitment that this is what I am going to do. I had a dream to go to the Olympics and I had my fair share of struggles to get there. In 1998 I was without a beach volleyball partner and wondered whether it was worth continuing to play. I contemplated doing something different - settling down, getting a job.
The thing for me was I would have hated to get to the year 2000 and then think, what if? That was the driving force in my heart and I thought, I have got to keep going for it.
To make a decision it is really finding out within your heart what the answer is. If you are going to quit because “it’s too hard”, then that’s the wrong answer. But if there are new opportunities then that is different. You want to stop doing something only when you see something better. When you see this is where you CAN go. That’s really what I truly believe in, using your internal radar. Trust your instincts and not what other people say. They might not necessarily be the right guide.
Remember, other people may have other ideas about your ability and you don’t want your success to be determined by others. If a coach doesn’t like you or you don’t fit into their game plan then it might be a sign to take a different direction. There may be another, easier path to follow. The important thing is to make a decision.
Challenges are part of the journey and it’s who you become on the way. I worked for a beach volleyball team that aspired to go to Beijing in 2008. They didn’t make it. However, the people they became on the way will strengthen where they go beyond. One of them is still travelling on a World Tour. The other has retired and following a new exciting path - she is still a champion.
The most important thing is who you become along the way as you keep going towards your goal.